The Narcissist's Kryptonite: How to Make Them Revalue You
The Narcissist's Kryptonite: How to Make Them Revalue You
Dealing with narcissists can be a daunting task, but understanding what drives them can give you an upper hand. According to Lana Gorokhav, Head of Strategy and Marketing, a narcissist's revaluation of you comes down to three key factors: power, control, and the perception of higher value.
Understanding Narcissistic Nature
Narcissists thrive on superiority, feeding on validation and control, and are addicted to their own self-importance. To get a narcissist to revalue you, you must challenge their superiority and force them to recognize your worth.
Four Steps to Make a Narcissist Revalue You
1. Elevate Yourself: Become exceptional in every aspect of your life, including physical fitness, mental acuity, career success, and social status. This will make you undeniable and attractive to the narcissist's primal instinct.
2. Remove Yourself from Their Grasp: Walk away and show them you're not reliant on their validation. This creates a power vacuum that they desperately want to fill, making them reevaluate your worth.
3. Live with Purpose and Success: Make them see that your life is thriving without them. Celebrate your successes and surround yourself with high-value individuals. This will make them feel left out and less important.
4. Unapologetic Confidence: Carry yourself with unwavering confidence, reflecting the desired self-image of the narcissist. This will make them take notice and question their initial valuation of you.
Remember
Do these steps not to seek approval from the narcissist, but to become the best version of yourself. By elevating and evolving, you'll naturally repel toxic games and attract high-value relationships. Your worth isn't determined by others; it's determined by you.