The Secret World Inside Her Mind: 8 Mind-Blowing Facts About Female Psychology
Have you ever tried to understand the inner workings of a woman's mind? It can feel like a complex labyrinth, a mystery wrapped in an enigma. But fear not, curious adventurer! Today, we're going to delve into the fascinating world of female psychology and uncover eight mind-blowing facts that will change the way you think about women forever.
Women don't want their boyfriend to be their psychotherapist. What women actually want their boyfriend to do is that he really listens to and understands her without trying to fix her. This is because a lot of women absolutely love feeling emotions. So when your girlfriend tells you about her toxic work colleague, you just agree with her and tell her that this colleague really sounds like an asshole instead of trying to make her feel better. By trying to fix her problems, you don’t allow her to experience whatever she wants to feel. You basically take away what makes her feel alive by invalidating her feelings.
Some women are more likely to be opportunists than men. This does not apply to every single woman of course and isn't a negative trait either. All what that means is simply that some women prefer to take advantage of every opportunity that presents itself to them, especially since women get approached by men far more often than men get approached by women.
Women have a higher non-physical pain tolerance than men do. Perhaps this is because, on average, women tend to have a richer emotional spectrum/higher EQ than men do.
The cat principle: I got this one from the amazing book 'How to be a 3% man' by Corey Wayne and it holds a lot of truth. Women tend to behave like cats when it comes to dating and attracting them. They tend to be reserved and you have to make them feel comfortable with you at first and before they let you get close to them. Get too close too quickly and they run away. It's really subtle.
Women love it when you read their signals they give off via body language and often, they aren't even aware of the signals they give off. This includes stuff like pointing their feet towards you, playing with their hair or staying close to you. Those are pretty solid indicators of interest.
Social media and dating apps does to women what porn does to men. On average, really beautiful women tend to get more attention on social media and dating apps than men do, simply because they look beautiful and because they get lots of likes, compliments, followers etc. from the opposite gender. Let me give you an example (I apologize for generalizing but stick with me here). Pretty girl makes a social media/app account, depending on what app she is using gets 20–50 messages, likes, compliments etc. within a day, is constantly being hit on by men online and can barely keep up with it. This exact thing does to women what porn does to men because it makes especially women with low self-esteem view men as objects who only exist to validate her, as disposable and not as human beings, just like porn addiction does make men view women as nothing more than a object for instant gratification.
When a woman asks you if she is fat, you don't just tell her no. You go and kiss her and tell her that you love her.
Most women don't care that much about a man's beauty. What they care about the most in men (at least the types of women who make the best girlfriends and wives) is integrity, confidence and substance, just to name a few qualities.
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